21. September 2014 · Comments Off on Friends Support · Categories: News · Tags: ,

Has he shared the company of a friend who is spending a situation that makes you feel emotionally fragile?Do you feel the desire to contribute and support it to exceed the condition of that time? I believe that the vast majority of us Yes, however many times we have faced the situation of not knowing how to say or do to collaborate and serve our friend (a). There are in fact no manuals or formulas that the feelings and the ambient conditions are constantly changing, so it is advisable to know few generalities suitable for our proceeding. Positive attitude. Such usual questions as you are? How do you feel? They can trigger different feelings, depending on the form and time in which we express them (gestures, tone of voice, in private or not, etc.) independent case, our friend (or) need to perceive that we are interested in your situation, we understand, that count on us, also that respect. Therefore maintain an attitude positive will be reflected in what we say and how we say it. It is important to clarify the actions and words we express transmit what we feel, so we drink to strive to maintain a condition of positivism.

Do not let the difficult situation of his friend (a) change its way of relating, not lose sight of that still has the strengths and weaknesses that make him who he is; avoid the use of undesirable expressions and that induce sit victim. To exemplify what phrases like: than barbaro (a) how he was able to can’t believe that Learn how to listen. So what I was taught and similarly explain it to my kids, hear is something very different to hear it wise is to allow the person who is living a stressful situation is relieved, do not interrupt it with empty phrases, listen with patience and try to understand how it feels; with such patience without downplaying his situation you hear again and again his conversation.

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