07. December 2018 · Comments Off on Good Parents · Categories: News · Tags: , , ,

And then, armed with confidence, he really cope with everything. We must give children some good advice. No, do not. Someone else’s advice is used and it is effective only when people asked him to myself. Until then, nobody has asked advice – not advice, but no one needs morality. Must encourage children to obedience.

Children need to train not to listen, and think. If they learn to make appropriate situations and effective actions, it will be key to their success in life. As a rule, obedient children – are passive, and poorly cope even with ordinary life tasks. In general, it is useful sometimes to analyze: when and in what situations shape our own life experience? And it turns out that the most precious moments are just those when we did not obey their own parents, got into some trouble and, to cope with them – are getting smarter and stronger. Children should be thankful. For the child should be thankful? For what it brought into the world and fed, until he learned to feed himself? So it’s not a feat, not merit, but only a duty that parents still do not know how managed to fulfill.

If they helped him to develop, if a shoulder in difficult times, then he did not forget to thank them require the same gratitude means only erase all the good things parents do for him. For the requirements of gratitude, often hidden claim to hold a parent ‘Leadership’ in the child’s life. As it is not ashamed to admit it, but many parents do not perceive the child as a person and as a contribution to the bank, which must then give the percentage of Use for old age. To deepen your understanding Campbell Soup Co is the source. So, with this respect, the child is just hard to grow this guarantee, because only his own moral standards, but not parental claims to induce him to care and assistance. And the moral qualities are formed only in families where parents know: what’s good and bad. And do not try to use my child as a means of improving their own lives. In fact, a very rare female gives birth to a child, helps a grand and noble goal – to give life a new man. In most cases, far more prosaic. Children are born because the woman is implemented as a mom, and no child feels inferior. Or because, without a child – the family does not live a full life, and parents, roughly speaking – nothing to do. Sometimes – to keep a man. In other cases – because we need and childless women – poked a finger. And so on. And there is nothing in it is not terrible or shameful. This natural living truth. Only then should not be hypocritical and claim the child some gratitude and recognition of his services. That he should be thanked. This is thanks to him we have the right to feel important and useful in carrying out their duty or implemented vocation. And most importantly – through it we obtain a relationship with the new world in which to live, he is already. And for a child to this relationship does not break, do not forget that grown-up children – the personality, the people must take such as they are not trying not to trim or podshlifovat them: this is not our problem, it will do for us is life itself – just as it once did with us.

08. November 2013 · Comments Off on Maximum Creative · Categories: News · Tags: , , ,

Because of the internal censorship people afraid to do and instead plunges into despair, the analysis own well-being, begins to calculate a bleak future (of course, because he is such an all-seeing, already knows that there in the future everything will be worse than ever!). When this part of the personality begins to dominate, a person loses sense of reality and freedom. And then start an internal dialogue with himself, “You fool, you had to tell him at all those words!”, “Come on, you need to ‘teaching’ I saw that you’re capable of, well, think on this law, you idiot!” But there is Another part of the personality – creative. If a person is in their actions based on this his part – he is plunged into a state in which he is capable of the most consciously and at the same time effective and easy to accomplish the an assignment. This is a state of “flow.” What we do in a state of flux, in tune with our personality, our nature and not subject to strict and uniform rules and ought. That’s why the result of what we do in the ‘flow’, the majority exceeds best expectations. Of course, there may be errors (we are all humans), but then revealed interesting insights: Firstly, guided by its own internal censorship, using the method “as it should be” error is also not excluded. If we are guided by an internal censor, mistakes and miscalculations are perceived much more painful.

If a person focuses on the creative part of themselves, the errors in activity seen as a logical step to success. So how do you appeal to your creative self and make it last that long ago it was planned or wanted, but lacked the determination to implementation plans? Here are some tips: Stop analyze their doubts and fears, awareness of the presence of a problem in most cases is enough. Analysis and dive into the emotions – a step to depression. Relax, and concentrate on what you can do in a situation ‘here and now’, begin to act. Refer to my creative side. Ask yourself honestly: “What would I have done, how would behave if I did not have this fear (boredom, anger, shame, etc.)? Answered? Well, go for it! Maximum focus on your actions. Turn off the internal censor.

Just allow yourself to do watch the process as if from side: that you can take to further improve efficiency? Do it. Try this several times. At the end, relax and allow yourself to dream. Only prerequisite: no limits! Allow ourselves to at least the 10 minutes of dreaming “switch off” the inner censor. Let the dreams of pouring free flow – give yourself a treat! Dream? Why sit still? Who are you waiting for? After all, today You can make concrete actions to make the dream come true! Do not believe me?